If you're creating a chat then just use the timestamps and let Laravel store the date the regular way. You can then manipulate it with carbon to show it in the way you want.
For chat I recommend to use something like this
//It will show in a format like 5 days ago.
$table->created_at->diffForHumans();
To display in the format of 12/25/2015 you will do this:
use Carbon\Carbon;
{{Carbon::parse($ticket->created_at)->format('m/d/Y')}}
So basically go read about carbon and see in what ways you can manipulate dates. It will solve pretty much all your date problems. https://github.com/briannesbitt/Carbon