Is your select a multiple select ? It doesn't seems so, but then you should change the input name to leave_applicable_gender (without [])
To have a defaut value for your first page access, you should set the second parameter of old(). This second parameter is the value returned by old if the request doesn't contain this input.
@if(old('leave_applicable_gender', 1) == $k) //no need to put "" around $k