Customize Login for Individual Session Timelife (Laravel 5.8)

Hi, I'am a Laravel Newbie and I need some help.

I have the task to set individual session lifetime for every user who wants to set it by a option field in login form.

At the moment i find a solution, but for every user, with a middleware to set config(['session.lifetime'....]) before session .

I had the hope, that in the $request are the login form requests, but after login the request is empty. Is there a way to get this data after login in the middleware i use, before a session is created??

Thanks Attila