I think Forge creates a new droplet because it needs a fresh installation.
You can choose the 512mb option but you may run into problems with composer running out of memory.
You can fix this by adding the following script to your recipes and running it. It creates a swap file for when you run low on memory.
if [ -f /swapfile ]; then
echo "Swap file already exists."
else
sudo fallocate -l 1G /swapfile
sudo chmod 600 /swapfile
sudo mkswap /swapfile
sudo swapon /swapfile
echo "/swapfile none swap sw 0 0" >> /etc/fstab
echo "vm.swappiness=30" >> /etc/sysctl.conf
echo "vm.vfs_cache_pressure=50" >> /etc/sysctl.conf
echo "Swap created and added to /etc/fstab for boot up."
fi